The holidays are full of love, laughter — and often, a little chaos. During this special routine- between the doorbell ringing, food on every counter, and the constant flow of guests, dogs can easily become overstimulated. Whether your dog greets everyone like a long-lost friend or helps him/her self to the turkey, a little preparation goes a long way.
Here are some practical, positive training tips to help your dog stay calm and well-mannered through the holiday season and beyond.
1. Rehearse Door Greetings Before Your Gathering at Home
If your dog tends to rush the door when the doorbell rings or jump on guests upon entering, start practicing now.
– Set up short practice sessions: Have a friend or family member ring the doorbell while you reward your dog for calm behavior — this could be sitting, standing politely, or simply not jumping or charging forward.
– Reward the behavior you want: The moment your dog stays composed — for example, calmly standing and looking at the guest, or sitting without lunging or barking — praise and treat generously.
– Use management tools: Baby gates or leashes can help you set your dog up for success until they’ve mastered polite manners.
This reinforces calm dog behavior — not jumping, barking, or rushing — is what makes good things happen.
2. Prevent Food Skimming Before It Starts
With Christmas or Hanukah food everywhere, it’s tempting for dogs to sneak a taste on your counters.
– Keep food out of reach: Before cooking begins, make sure counters are clear and trash cans have secure lids.
– Reward alternative behaviors: Teach a “go to your spot” cue where your dog relaxes on a mat while you prep food.
– Don’t rely on scolding: Catching your dog mid-surf only teaches them to wait until you’re not looking. Prevention and redirection are more effective (and less stressful for everyone).
3. Manage Excitement At Gatherings
Holiday energy can be overwhelming for even the most social dogs.
– Create a calm retreat: Set up a quiet room or crate with their favorite bed, toy, and chew. Give them time to unwind there when guests arrive or noise levels rise.
– Use enrichment tools: Occupy your dog with long-lasting chews, puzzle toys, or stuffed Kongs
– Watch for signs of stress: Yawning, lip-licking, or pacing are signs that your dog needs a break.
Remember: giving your dog a quiet space isn’t punishment — it’s an act of kindness.
4. Anticipate Your Plan for Success
– Meet your dog’s needs before guests arrive. Arrange and adjust in advance for your dog’s walk, playtime, and some mental enrichment to reduce stress
– Ask guests not to feed your dog table scraps. Politely let them know your dog has a special diet (even if that “diet” is just peace and consistency!).
– Stay consistent. Even during the holidays, stick to your dog’s usual routines for meals, walks, and bedtime. Dogs whose needs are met tend to be more well-adjusted and calm in busy environments.
5. If You Need Help, Ask Early
If your dog’s excitement or anxiety feels overwhelming, don’t wait until right before the holidays to start training. A few short virtual lessons with a professional trainer can make all the difference. You can teach calm behaviors around guests and prevent stress for both you and your dog — and enjoy the holidays together.
Bottom line:
With a bit of planning, management, and positive reinforcement, you can help your dog stay relaxed and well-mannered through all the holiday fun. Your guests will thank you — and so will your dog. Ready to get a head start before the holidays?
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